Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Biblical Community - I Need You and You Need Me!


Hello all!

It’s been a crazy few months with our son’s wedding and with life in general, but I’ve decided to take a few minutes to sit quietly in my favorite room and reflect on some things that God has put on my heart recently. I woke up this morning with so many folks on my heart who are hurting for various reasons, and with others who God just put on my heart to pray for. When He nudges me like that, I feel compelled to pray. I also woke up with some other thoughts on my mind this morning, some of which I’d like to share.

Often, my blogs come into being from something I have read in my private worship and devotion time, or a friend may say something profound or they may come from watching a sunset or sitting quietly watching a gold finch or a humming bird feast on one of the many feeders in our yard. The words just start swelling in my heart and I cannot wait to get the time to put them down in print.

This writing is sort of a combination of all of these kinds of moments, however, it mainly began forming in my heart when a dear friend reminded me of something that I think about often. In fact, it is a vital part of who I am. We were talking and like so many other times through the years, she shared her heart thoughts with me. She is a dear friend and any time that I get the chance to talk to her, which is not nearly enough, she strongly encourages me. I love her dearly and I thank God for her and husband, and other special friends who love me enough to always be honest.

During our phone conversation, we started talking about biblical community and what that means. She and her husband would probably not want me to say this about them (they are very humble folks), but for MANY years, they have been and continue to be such examples of biblical community to me and to my family. She shared a very good “definition” of biblical community. I think it came from one of her favorite authors, and also from their own personal ministry experiences. She said this, (or something very close to this…I even grabbed a notepad and wrote it down!) “Biblical community is this, knowing and being known, loving and being loved, serving and being served, celebrating and being celebrated and grieving together in times of grief.” I think I’ve got that right, believe me, she’ll let me know if I don’t…and that is one of the many things that I absolutely love about her! J

Her words have continued to ring loudly in my heart and mind in these last few days. I find them to be very true. Just about everyone I know wants to be known, loved, valued and celebrated. We all need someone to laugh with us when we have something to laugh about, people who really care about us, especially when we are hurting or grieving. I believe that God created us with hearts that desperately need Him and need others. We are not islands, we need each other! I KNOW that is so true for me.

Not only do I need others, but I strongly desire to be this kind of. I want to be the kind of friend and believer who is available for others when they are celebrating or when they are hurting or all in between. I want to love people well and know people well, not just know about them, but KNOW them and LOVE them. I want to be the kind of example that my dear friends have been to me for so many years. We always want our home to have a revolving door with a huge welcome sign, a hug, a warm meal and listening hearts for all who enter. I want to love like Jesus loves. After all, is our best example. He loved all kinds of folks. He met them right where they were and loved them into His Father’s kingdom. He loved tax collectors (some not so nice people in His day), he loved women who had been with many men, people who cursed Him, people with diseases, and He loved the very people who crucified Him. (us!) Not only did He die for us, but He keeps on loving us. If we are His children, nothing and no one can separate us from His love. (Romans 8:35; 39) This is an incredible truth!

Well, I’m not sure how to wrap this one up except to say that I really need people in my life who love me enough to be honest, who love me enough to laugh with me, to cry with me, to dream with me and to walk with me along life’s path until we all reach eternity. I read something this week that makes me realize just how much I need others, but more so, how I need Christ. It said something like this…thoughts of my own weakness lead me to the Cross. Wow, when I think about just how weak I am, and about how little I can actually accomplish on my own, that pushes me to my knees and to the foot of the Cross. It also causes me to reach out to a few dear friends to ask for prayer and guidance, for encouragement and maybe even just a hug. I thank God that I have a wonderful family and a pretty incredible church family, some of whom I believe deeply care about me. I want to give as much of that back as often as I can. I want to LOVE others. Do you have a place and some people like that? Do you have a relationship with the One who loves you like no one else ever will, Jesus Christ? Do you have a church home that is your extended family? If not, I strongly urge you to find someone who is willing to talk to you about Jesus, or a church home where you can know and be known, love and be loved, serve and be served, be celebrated and celebrate, and find a few folks to walk through life with you. If I can be that person for you, please let me know. I am willing! I may not get it right all of the time, but I’m sure going to keep trying! God bless you all and thank you for reading!! J

Hebrews 10:24-25 “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another —and all the more as you see the Day approaching.”




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